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How do you make a Choice?

 

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Life throws at us a plethora of options to choose from, and we have to choose an option out of the available choices which suits us the best. It always intrigues me as to how easy or overwhelming people find it to reach a decision. It may be something simple as which flavor of ice-cream to order or what dress to wear for the party. Or a slightly more complex one, where you have two exciting job offers, and you are undecided on which one to accept?

Today there is no dearth of choice, for people to choose from.

Be it buying from the store or shopping online,

schools to seek admission for your child or the university to pursue higher studies,

plan for a holiday or the airline to fly by,

the restaurant you like to enjoy dinner or buy tickets for a show,

the brand of the latest mobile you want to buy or  the latest car you would like to own .

Life as we grew up was a simple affair as there were very limited alternatives. Either this or that. With changing times and lifestyles, there is an abundance of options. Does being inundated with choices in every aspect of life make the process of everyday decision making simpler or does it confuse you even more? Would love to know  🙂

55 comments on “How do you make a Choice?

  1. Sifar
    April 23, 2018

    Great observation!! To me simple things with less choice are better! For eg earlier there used to be limited tv channels but we loved watching them so much…nowadays there is flood of channels but that level of enjoyment is missing…we find ourselves sifting through channels and content only! Back then chitrahaar ( i dont know if you are aware of it?) was soo entertaining and 30 mins of it used to charge the whole week! Nowadays so many music options but we are still searching!!!!

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    • radhikasreflection
      April 23, 2018

      Guess we date back to the same generation. Chitrhaar, chayageet, Star trek , we enjoyed watching the limited telecast of programs. Seriously now many a times I only do channel swapping and end up watching nothing at all. Frankly I was happier then with limited choices across different areas, than today with the unlimited choices😁

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      • Sifar
        April 23, 2018

        Oh chayageet!! 😃 yes! And a lot more like surbhi, bharat ek khojh, byomkesh bakshi, tehkikaat, …even cartoons like alladin, mowngli, duck tales were so much fun!! Compared to today’s cartoon which are just caricatures with no story! Couple of channels but full entertainment…and that also meant free time for us and others to catch up and have a chat or do some fun activities! Nowadays unlimited choices but cant even come any close to the happiness of old days! I miss them a lot ☹️ you know what, i dont even have a tv now..since 10years!!
        Btw….nominated you for something! 😊

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      • radhikasreflection
        April 23, 2018

        🙌 those were quality programs, woh bhi kya din tthe!! Remember them even after years. It’s wonderful that you don’t have a TV. Let me tell you that you aren’t missing anything 🙂

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      • Sifar
        April 23, 2018

        Haan sach much! ☹️ we cant have same days back again.
        Haha thanks for telling me that! 🙂 i know it’s an idiot box now!

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      • radhikasreflection
        April 23, 2018

        Yes, bilkul!

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  2. Sameera
    April 23, 2018

    I am always in dilemma. The more the choices the more the dilemma. But lately I have learnt that sometimes you need to close eyes, breathe and choose whatever coming at your way. Other times you can think and take a decision. Though the more I think, the chances of bad decisions increase 😂

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    • radhikasreflection
      April 23, 2018

      Agree Sameera. The expansive option to choose from, intimidates me many times. I seem to waste quite a long time in reaching a decision 😀

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      • rishhuu
        April 23, 2018

        Replied above. Lol. Pardon my intrusion. Ha Ha Ha

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    • rishhuu
      April 23, 2018

      sometimes you need to close eyes, breathe and choose whatever coming at your way.

      In the long run can be harmful, re. And life is long, trust me on this. Lol. 5-6 years more experience that you. 😉 Lol.
      Thinking is okay, SWOT analysis is okay, Not thinking is not okay. Can hurt you. Some decisions have no redemption at all. Choices are an indicative of freedom, and freedom is essential for growth. Abundance of choice is good for only for those people who know how to take good decision, bad for them who take bad decisions.

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      • radhikasreflection
        April 23, 2018

        When we do have enough time, contemplating on the choices is fine. But when one has to make quick decisions, then the problem arises. A confused mind can hardly take a sane decision. Maybe for people whose choices are very clear and well defined don’t face challenges amidst a sea of choices, unlike me, an eternally confused soul 😁. Thanks Rishhuu for sharing your thoughts!

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      • rishhuu
        April 23, 2018

        Haan. Agree. I guess that’s why not everyone can be a great entrepreneur. Welcome. 😊

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      • radhikasreflection
        April 23, 2018

        Yup!!

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      • Sameera
        April 23, 2018

        Tabhi sometime bola re 😂 our decisions are going to define us so we need to choose them wisely. Zyada bhi nahi sochna. Aur kam bhi nahi. Balance rakhne chaiye bas.😊

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      • rishhuu
        April 23, 2018

        Wisely said. 😊

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      • Sameera
        April 23, 2018

        Yes.😊

        Like

  3. vishalbheeroo
    April 23, 2018

    Well said Radhika. At the end of the day, it boils down to marketing in selling a product, self-worth and psychology. I think consumers need to make a priority list on what we really need. An interesting debate.

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    • radhikasreflection
      April 23, 2018

      Thanks Vishal. But the psychology of the consumer is very confused when it comes to selection and deciding. Prioritising helps in major decision making. But the everyday decision making is always a challenge!

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  4. boundlessblessingsblog
    April 23, 2018

    Very interesting and you said it aptly Radhika. Today so many choices have been put forth that life has become a roller-coaster. One does not know what to buy and buying what and how has become a problem. Take children and their demands are so much that one cannot think. Our times as you rightly said were so beautiful we never had all these demands and our parents picked up for us and we were so happy and pleased with whatever they brought for us from their little savings. Life is life and it is beautiful but we as humans with wants and desires have made our living difficult and impossible.

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    • radhikasreflection
      April 23, 2018

      Very well said Kamal. Simple living like in our times had it’s own charm. We were easily satisfied. Now with so many options, people never seem to be happy with a choice they make. That lurking feeling that the other option was probably better always haunts them. The deluge of choices is leading life to a perennial state of confusion.

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      • boundlessblessingsblog
        April 23, 2018

        Yes absolutely true, Radhika and today we are feeling so much stressed out and worrying for every little things. We were really happy in our times, today money power has increased and so all these malls and madness. This is our life today but anyways all these things have come to stay so we too need to be in the present moment and enjoy our life. Have a great day dear.

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      • radhikasreflection
        April 23, 2018

        Agree Kamal. “Mall and madness!!” So true! A new culture which has changed the lifestyle of people. Can’t say for better or worse. Like you rightly said, it is up to us to define our path, and make various choices enroute. Enjoy your week dear ☺️

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      • boundlessblessingsblog
        April 23, 2018

        Yes agree Radhika. You too have a great week dear.

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  5. DeepikasRamblings
    April 23, 2018

    Confused for choices…After I make a choice, I always feel the other one would have been better 🙄🙄
    I prefer our good old days, radhika, where life was simple and choices were simple ☺️

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  6. Annika Perry
    April 23, 2018

    Radhika, I too feel there are too many choices … sometimes for the better but often we end up more confused than ever! 😀

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  7. delphini510
    April 23, 2018

    Radhika, you take up a very interesting subject. Personally I prefer to go to a bit smaller outlets with a firm idea in mind what I am after. The enormous amount of goods available can create stress and make us think we need much more than we do.
    Choices are good but within reason. I do love to shop gifts on inspiration. You might see something that is just right. At least one thinks so.
    Thanks for an excellent post
    miriam

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    • radhikasreflection
      April 23, 2018

      Miriam, I think you are a very wise shopper with a firm idea in mind. Else the huge stores always succeed in confusing it’s customers with their myriad choices and discounts. Many times we end up buying irrelevant stuff. Next time, let me try your tip of visiting smaller stores with a specific idea in mind. Thank you for giving your input 🙂

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  8. arlene
    April 23, 2018

    Life’s choices are varied but what you choose to do depends on your maturity and responsibility to face its outcome.

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  9. Megha's World
    April 23, 2018

    To me, simplicity always intrigued me.The fewer choices you have in life the simpler your life gets.It is my observation that more the choices have in today’s life they less content as they are always ready to acquire the next shiny piece of the trinket.As Leonardi Da Vinci said,” The simplicity is the ultimate sophistication”. I abide by that rule. Nice post,Radhika

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  10. swalia
    April 23, 2018

    Too many choices sometimes add to the chaos. Lesser choices means less complication, easy decision making and a simplified life.

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    • radhikasreflection
      April 23, 2018

      Thanks Shaloo. I am happy to see the comment thread here, where many bloggers believe in the same thought! Too much of anything I guess brings in confusion!!

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  11. Infinite Living
    April 23, 2018

    The multitude of choices indeed makes life confusing at times. It has become ever so necessary to be able to listen to your inner voice and carve out a course of choices that truly work for us.

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    • radhikasreflection
      April 24, 2018

      Yes absolutely Pragalbha. But it has been my observation that adults too behave like kids when they are in the midst of ample choices to shop from. To use their discretion wisely and shop is still a challenge to many!

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  12. Rupali
    April 24, 2018

    Interesting post Radhika.
    Life is simple we make it complicated 🙂

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  13. Mehul Singla
    April 24, 2018

    That’s an awesome post. Life is simple but we ourselves make it complicated. Now choices are more but level of excitement and satisfaction is low. Nowadays even small children knows how to use mobile but they don’t know the fun to play outside with friends.

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    • radhikasreflection
      April 24, 2018

      Very true Mehul. We are losing out on so many small joys of life. I remember the excitement of getting something new, which was so rare. Now kids keep buying stuff either online or at shops. So there is no novelty or excitement for them.

      Like

  14. A very appropriate thought put forward and left with many questions whose answers needs to found!! Beautiful post Radhika and a very apt thought put forward

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  15. Khas Press
    April 26, 2018

    Good One

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  16. almeidadepaulo
    May 8, 2018

    Well written Radhika!!!

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