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Just be!

In response to Susi’s haiku challenge # 10.

just-be

ic: Susi Bocks

Bonds asphyxiate

life, a discordant melee

sour relationship

Dissolve toxic moods

shed the stale veil of ego

stay calm and just be

Reflective thinking

synergy of mind and thoughts

ties blossom again.

Sometimes relationships or close bonds feel suffocated with overpowering proximity. The feeling of each being right, blinds their vision to see that each is stifling the other.They just need some space away from each other to ponder and reflect. This small step does wonders to revive the love in the relationship.

Do share your views on this.

54 comments on “Just be!

  1. The Typewriter
    March 14, 2019

    Truth knitted so beautifully.. correct you are.. ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’•

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  2. DeepikasRamblings
    March 14, 2019

    Yes, Radhika..Very true. If love is about being possessive, it can turn relationships into a prison of sorts.
    Very reflective thoughts.

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  3. Abhay
    March 14, 2019

    Very intense and deep

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  4. ESP
    March 14, 2019

    Insightful!
    the feeling of being right is often the wrong feeling. Without established absolutes, what is right and what wrong are just perspectives.

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  5. vidur sahdev
    March 14, 2019

    Very true, and wonderfully stated.

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  6. krishnapriya108
    March 14, 2019

    Yes, space from each other and our own thoughts and opinions too! You paint it so well with your magical writing. Thank You. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  7. Beautifully penned. For the relationships that are parting away, is because of the required space to be given is not given. Have been grown up in a family where understanding each other and understanding the space needed at every stage. But today I see people call themselves modern but are growing more conservative in thoughts. Not understanding the space to be given and poking in each otherโ€™s work and trying to let down the confidence of the people whom we love. These things are truly creating distance even in close nitted relations.
    Beautifully expressed. I could image myself on the thoughts shared by you and often thinking with self but couldnโ€™t express wonderfully the way you did.

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    • radhikasreflection
      March 14, 2019

      Thanks so much Tanvir for sharing your inputs. Appreciate it. ๐Ÿ’–
      When love starts to dominate or control every aspect of the partner, it seriously starts to strain the relationship. Not only theirs, in fact it goes on to affect others in the family too. A little bit of maturity in seeing things from a different perspective makes a lot of difference to improve the ties. Hope people realise this before it is too late.

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  8. iScriblr
    March 14, 2019

    Well said! I so agree with you โ€“ sometimes โ€œspaceโ€ is necessary!โค๏ธโค๏ธ

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  9. Megha's World
    March 14, 2019

    Yes very true, we all need breathing space in a relationship. Well said, Radhika.

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  10. Sangbad
    March 14, 2019

    How are you? After a time am back in bloggingโ€ฆ.

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  11. Jyo
    March 14, 2019

    Itโ€™s absolutely wonderfulโ€ฆ.so touching and agreed too ๐Ÿ‘

    Like

  12. Infinite Living
    March 14, 2019

    Absolutely agree with you and that poem is beautiful! It is very important to honor and have space for individual journeys, otherwise relationships get very painful.

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  13. Rupali
    March 15, 2019

    Thoughtful.

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  14. Agree with you and wonder how can you put them so beautifully in words. This is a true service.

    Like

  15. Indira
    March 15, 2019

    Very true, Radhiโ€ฆeach one needs oneโ€™s own lifespace!

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  16. boundlessblessingsblog
    March 15, 2019

    Yes I totally agree with your words of truth and reality, Radhika. Just Be and give space to others and to ourselves to Be who we really r. Lovely words penned.

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  17. Yasmin
    March 15, 2019

    Beautifully expressed Radhika.
    Everything needs a space to grow and become strong and that holds true for relationships too.You are the part of my world but a little apart is important too.Coz over time without โ€œspace โ€ relationships start dying silently

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    • radhikasreflection
      March 15, 2019

      “You are a part of my world but a little apart is important too” how well said Yasmin. Thanks much ๐Ÿ’–

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  18. Susi Bocks
    March 16, 2019

    Radhika, you did a great job with all three of these from so many perspectives. Thank you for your contributions! ๐Ÿ™‚

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  19. Chiru
    March 17, 2019

    Absolutely trueโ€ฆ Only when we have little gap even in closest relationship, life will be good..

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  20. Kunal Thakore
    March 18, 2019

    Very, very nicely penned!

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  22. Sifar
    March 20, 2019

    Perfectly written article about relationships!! Sometimes staying close and being possessive suffocates and stifles the relationship….even when there is an underlying true love….it chokes the air…what is needed is some distance to reflow the supply of air by staying far for sometime…that way will rekindle the relationship by making us miss all the good things about the other person…and how much they value to us….giving space is so important!!

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  23. daneelyunus
    March 21, 2019

    Nice post Radhika

    Like

  24. Rupali S Banerjee
    March 27, 2019

    Very well wrotten

    Liked by 1 person

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