
Recently I was watching a rerun of the Bollywood film “Dear Zindagi” on television. A beautiful movie where the protagonist is overwhelmed by an incident of her childhood, which reflects on her present life relationships. Her personal life seems to be in doldrums. A chance meeting with a Psychologist, helps her resolve her problems giving her the confidence to view life with a beautiful perspective. Definitely, a movie many can relate to, worth a watch!
There is one line in the movie which the therapist uses during one of the sessions. “Don’t let the past blackmail your present to ruin a beautiful future”. Such a profound statement, isn’t it?
Life can throw quite a few unpleasant challenges at us. Many, we shrug off, some teach us a lesson, while a few hurt us, blemishing our personality to a great extent. At times, we reel under its burden, unable to shrug it off. This manifestation definitely needs to be addressed and set right, else, it could eclipse our future too!
The indelible scar of the past
meanders in the mind’s crevices
whispers secret messages
forays uninvited into dreams
entraps the present
sings haunting lines in hushed tones,
emerges from obscurity
to cast a gloomy shadow
on the future.
Untangle the web of antiquity
steer life on course
before,
the hollow memories of yore
pushes the soul into
an abyss of no return!
Lovely Rads
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Thanks Deepa!
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Beautiful one.
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Thanks Shreya!
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This sure is a very beautiful movie and we love the title song and it’s in my favorite.
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Oh yes Sunil, I loved the movie and it’s songs as well. Beautifully made!
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Indeed … beautifully written ❤️
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Thank you Mahee 🙂
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There was a time when nobody paid any attention to past and how it affects the psyche of children and adolescents…blessed is this generation (only those who have access to such help) that people are realising that past can scar so seriously.
Lovely poetry Radhika. 🙂
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So true Balroop. Many lives have lived their entire life carrying it’s burden. A timely help would have changed their life for better.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts here 🙂
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Yes .Never let the past affect your present /future .
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Absolutely Rita.
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Let go of the past and throw it away like a piece of garbage. Awesome poetic words composed, Radhika and what an amazing apt picture. Too good.
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Thanks Kamal. Though it is quite a challenge to forget the incidents of the past, it is best to learn the lessons and move ahead. Else the overwhelming burden becomes too heavy to carry for the rest of the life.
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Yes so true Radhika. Past is not very easy to forget it is stuck to us like glue and it takes years to clean it but with guidance slow and steady things work out and change takes place. Welcome dear.
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Absolutely and life heads in a positive direction!
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Yes so true, Radhika. All is Perfect in his Divine Plan.
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Nice one Radhika
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Thanks Daneel.
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Welcome Radhika
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Beautiful post Radhika, reminding us to live now and not carry impossible burdens
which will hinder the present and its new possibilities.
I really like the statement ”
“Don’t let the past blackmail your present to ruin a beautiful future.”
Miriam
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Thanks Miriam. Ii is actually this sentence that prompted me to write this post. It really made a profound impact on me.
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Same with me Radhika. I have copied it to remind me. 😊
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👍😊
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Very well said radhika 👍
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Thanks Deepika 🙂
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“Don’t let the past blackmail your present or ruin a beautiful future”…just right!
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Glad you agree Indira!
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I love this Radhika. Sometimes past does make things worse for the present and the future, but it takes all the courage we can bring up to change how we want things to be. And with the effort and love, we can do it.
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Yes Moushumi. But in such situations courage is really hard to garner, but yes if we can do that, then surely things will look up!
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Well written 👌
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Many thanks Akshaya 🙂
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Well said, Radhika!
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Thanks Vidur!
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Just today that movie had come up in a conversation about the the beautiful perspectives and how I think the same 🙂 You poem is what I enjoyed the most as usual!
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Thanks so much Pragalbha 🙂.
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So so beautifully put Radhika.. 🙂👌🏼
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Thanks Debika 😊
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😇😇💕
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Well written! I liked Dear Zindagi, its really great to witness Bollywood use its power to give out a message like this one.
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Thank you. Agree with you. Bollywood is a mass influencer and thus actually carry a huge responsibility on their shoulder to convey the right message.
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Issues need to be addressed not denied to be solved…same is with our past, beautifully captured…
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Absolutely. Thanks!
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I love this movie and your take and poem at the end was brilliant.
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Thanks so much Shantanu!
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My pleasure, Radhika
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Reminds me about the story of the ‘rotten tomatoes’ that children were asked to carry about in their bag until they could bear the stink no more and had to discard it. We too can set ourselves free from the burden of the stinking bit of our pasts and really it is not too difficult to do it. And when you are done letting it go, it feels so light and free.
The movie was a personal favorite too!
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Yes. I read that story too. Such an apt one to convey the message of letting go of the unpleasant memories.
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I liked that movie & your poetic take on this message is wonderful. Lovely!!
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Gratitude Bhavana 🙂
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Well written and profound!
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Thanks so much !
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I love this movie too… and maybe the dialogue which you highlighted is true !
Aditi
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Thanks Aditi!
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Welcome ☺
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Love this piece!
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Thanks 🙂
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I still have to watch that movie!
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Do watch it. I am sure you’ll enjoy it!
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Yes i will for sure!!
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