My perspective on core values….
Change is always good, but not when it comes to changing your core values.
Core values are like roots, the deeper they seep in, the stronger they make you.
A generation built on strong core values, will emerge into a healthy nation.
Seeds of core values instilled in children will sprout into a strong tree, able to withstand any storm.
How challenging do you think it is in today’s world, to instill core values in children?
Excellent thoughts and presentation.. agree totally with you in each and every line.. ๐๐๐
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Thank you my friend ๐
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Anytime dear.. one thing I would like to add to my bit to it too.. while growing my son up, I always reminded myself one line from my momโs mind.. โchildren listen to us less but observe and follow us more..โ
They will forget what u tell them to, they will remember what they saw.. So profound and powerful, no..??!! ๐๐
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Absolute wise words. Parents are the first and the best teachers to teach their kids by example.
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Wonderful thoughts shared!! I feel with changing world it have become difficult to sustain the core values to children,in basis of what we have received!! Itโs easy to become parents but how many have paid attention in giving an absolute life of culture to their children!! Parents are themselves lost in the materialistic world than what asset will they bestow to their children!!
Itโs a treasure to be a parent I suppose till the time child is small as the time passes even if you give best to them , children will surely adapt the limelight of the world!!
Undoubtedly beautiful thoughts shared
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Thanks Tanvir for sharing your insights. Peer pressure, easy money, casualness towards morals, focus on material success all dilute values in adults. So for them to instill the same in children is a herculean task. I see very few parents who uphold their values and inculcate the same in their children.
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I truly agree !! Very deep inside post !! You are welcome
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A wonderful thought here, I guess it is after all challenging with the changing times, for the parents as well as the children.
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Absolutely! I share the same thoughts. The easy accessibility and exposure to things makes this task even more challenging!
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This is a beautiful post Radhika, I love your image of the roots being hands holding
firmly. You are also so right in the importance of core values, the fundamental
values on which we build a good society.
Today has new challenges but every generation has new challenges. It is up to
the fostering generation to give time and lead by example. To listen and guide and
do things together.
I think there has always been differences in how children have been treated,
and I see so many young parents today who take their role very seriously.
miriam
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I am happy to hear that many parents take this responsibility seriously Miriam. I only wish this number was greater, as these kids are going to hold the nation on their shoulders tomorrow. These shoulders definitely ought to be strong with core values embedded in them. It is always nice to read your feedback which is so genuine and positive. Thanks so much ๐
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Nowadays it is really difficult to instill core values into children. It can be achieved slowly over a period of time while we, the parents, could spend some quality time with them.
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Definitely Megala. Also, I feel parents can lead by example themselves. Children absorb a lot from their parent’s behavior and attitude towards things.
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Yes, we were brought up like that, but now children are looking into their gadgets and they donโt find time to look up to us ! ๐
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Sadly so. Today’s times are very challenging for parents and kids alike!
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Insightful! I agree with you Radhika , it is important to instill good values in children. โ Deeper the roots , stronger the treeโ.
But busy life & communication gap sometimes make it difficult.
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Very much so Bhavana. In the bargain a host of other issues crop up as the value system is not in place. It’s become a viscious circle today.
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Hi! I just nominated you for the โ3 Day Quote Challengeโ โ the details can be found here: https://awisewomansjourney.wordpress.com/2018/05/14/3-day-quote-challenge-day-two/
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Thanks for the nomination. I have one more pending on this one. Will try to do it sometime soon!
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Loved this post and tree roots depiction
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Thanks a lot!
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Youโre absolutely right! Another beautiful composition with a strong message. Our core values define us & keep us grounded:)
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Hats off to you Radhika for this beautiful post.
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Thank you Yagneshji ๐
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Very true and powerful Radhika!
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Thank you Pragalbha!
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Most welcome Radhika ๐
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Your first two line really touched me!
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Glad to hear that. Thanks Sunil!
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Being a mother myself I could relate to what you have written. Instilling core values in our children helps in building a more tolerant society tomorrow
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Absolutely Piyali. Glad you agree with me.
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Beautifully written ma’am, each of these lines are valuable. I don’t feel it is very hard to teach children, if parents did it in the right way.
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Depends on how much importance the parents give to these values being instilled in their children. Thanks Meenakshi โบ๏ธ
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So true ๐
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I feel these days there are so many distractions and so easy for kids to go astray that parents find it hard to instill core values. Even parents dont have time.
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Yes, that’s why I feel good parenting is the most challenging job in today’s times!
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Yeah when i look around and see parents struggling with it i feel I shouldnโt get married itself ๐๐
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While it does have its challenges, the journey of parenting is truly beautiful !!
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I will believe you ๐
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Haha ๐
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Beautiful thoughts radhika. A very tough job in todayโs world with loads of distractions..But once planted, cannot be uprooted.
Good post, radhika. ๐
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Yes, that’s why we need to ensure that the roots of those values are strong. Thanks for your feedback Deepika โบ๏ธ
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Wonderfully penned!
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Thanks Richa!
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Lovely thoughts on Core values. Its difficult to pass those values to our kids in this generation but we should still try our best to do so.
Radhika, You are nominated for the mystery blogger award โ https://shilpanairy.wordpress.com/2018/05/17/the-mystery-blogger-award/
Congratulationโฆ ๐
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Yes Shilpa. As parents and responsible adults, it should be our constant endeavour to instill these values in children.
Thanks so much for the nomination. But it’s been long since I have made my blog award free!!
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It is my belief that as parents it becomes your responsibility to instill core values in your children and there is no better way than be teach by example. Small acts of kindness can instill compassion, respecting the older generation and giving women the respect they deserve will teach them to follow suit. Such is the generation of today where we need to take time off our busy schedule to do it for them, for us and for the generation of tomorrow.
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Very true Pranitha. Be the person you want your child to grow up as, because children observe and absorb a lot from parents!
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Absolutely, Radhika.
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