In response to Susi’s haiku challenge # 10.
Bonds asphyxiate
life, a discordant melee
sour relationship
Dissolve toxic moods
shed the stale veil of ego
stay calm and just be
Reflective thinking
synergy of mind and thoughts
ties blossom again.
Sometimes relationships or close bonds feel suffocated with overpowering proximity. The feeling of each being right, blinds their vision to see that each is stifling the other.They just need some space away from each other to ponder and reflect. This small step does wonders to revive the love in the relationship.
Do share your views on this.
Truth knitted so beautifully.. correct you are.. 🙌🏼👍🏼😇👌🏼💕
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Thank you Debika. Glad you agree 💖😊
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Always welcome Radhika.. 😇💕
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Yes, Radhika..Very true. If love is about being possessive, it can turn relationships into a prison of sorts.
Very reflective thoughts.
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Thank you Deepika. Possessiveness always suffocates the relationship.
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Very intense and deep
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Thanks Abhay!
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Welcome Ma’am!
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Insightful!
the feeling of being right is often the wrong feeling. Without established absolutes, what is right and what wrong are just perspectives.
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Well said ESP. Thanks so much. Good to see you after long. How have you been?
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I have been lazy.
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Hmm….hard to believe that 😀
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Very true, and wonderfully stated.
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Thank you Vidur!
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Yes, space from each other and our own thoughts and opinions too! You paint it so well with your magical writing. Thank You. 🙂
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Thank you Krishnapriya for adding your thoughts 🙂
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You are always and most-est welcome. 💕
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😇💖
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Beautifully penned. For the relationships that are parting away, is because of the required space to be given is not given. Have been grown up in a family where understanding each other and understanding the space needed at every stage. But today I see people call themselves modern but are growing more conservative in thoughts. Not understanding the space to be given and poking in each other’s work and trying to let down the confidence of the people whom we love. These things are truly creating distance even in close nitted relations.
Beautifully expressed. I could image myself on the thoughts shared by you and often thinking with self but couldn’t express wonderfully the way you did.
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Thanks so much Tanvir for sharing your inputs. Appreciate it. 💖
When love starts to dominate or control every aspect of the partner, it seriously starts to strain the relationship. Not only theirs, in fact it goes on to affect others in the family too. A little bit of maturity in seeing things from a different perspective makes a lot of difference to improve the ties. Hope people realise this before it is too late.
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Yes that’s true !! 😊
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Well said! I so agree with you – sometimes “space” is necessary!❤️❤️
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Thanks for concurring with me Richa 🙂❤️
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Yes very true, we all need breathing space in a relationship. Well said, Radhika.
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Many thanks Megha!
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How are you? After a time am back in blogging….
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I am good Sangbad! Good to see you back 🙂
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Hope to see you soon at my blog
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It’s absolutely wonderful….so touching and agreed too 👍
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Absolutely agree with you and that poem is beautiful! It is very important to honor and have space for individual journeys, otherwise relationships get very painful.
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Thoughtful.
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Thanks Rupali.
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Agree with you and wonder how can you put them so beautifully in words. This is a true service.
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Very true, Radhi…each one needs one’s own lifespace!
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Yes, very much so for the relationship to bloom. Thanks Indira.
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Yes I totally agree with your words of truth and reality, Radhika. Just Be and give space to others and to ourselves to Be who we really r. Lovely words penned.
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Happy you agree. Thanks dear!
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Welcome dear
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Beautifully expressed Radhika.
Everything needs a space to grow and become strong and that holds true for relationships too.You are the part of my world but a little apart is important too.Coz over time without “space ” relationships start dying silently
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“You are a part of my world but a little apart is important too” how well said Yasmin. Thanks much 💖
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Radhika, you did a great job with all three of these from so many perspectives. Thank you for your contributions! 🙂
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Absolutely my pleasure Susi ☺️
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Wonderful! Look forward to future posts. 🙂
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👍🙂
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Absolutely true… Only when we have little gap even in closest relationship, life will be good..
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Thanks Chiru!
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Very, very nicely penned!
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Thanks a lot Kunal.
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Perfectly written article about relationships!! Sometimes staying close and being possessive suffocates and stifles the relationship….even when there is an underlying true love….it chokes the air…what is needed is some distance to reflow the supply of air by staying far for sometime…that way will rekindle the relationship by making us miss all the good things about the other person…and how much they value to us….giving space is so important!!
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Thanks Sifar for sharing your thoughts 🙂
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Nice post Radhika
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Very well wrotten
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Thanks Rupali!
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